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Love for Love wanted

Monday, March 15, 2010 Posted by Bikram
The weak can never forgive. Forgiveness is the attribute of the strong.

How to salvage a relation..

What must one do to get over the problems

When we know there have been mistakes made.. how long will it take for us to try to undo those mistakes, Or Is it easy to just walk away ...

How to pick the broken pieces and glue them.. Or as someone said we should wait for the NEXT person to come and fix them.. Is it so easy to just go to the next person.. Why dont we take it or feel that maybe if we just said Sorry or for that matter not even sorry... Just push your hand out or hold the hand that is out...

Thats all it takes, Or is it that the day spent away were better .. BUT WERE THEY really.. or did we just try to close our eyes or turn a blind eye.. In my thoughts its not easy to turn a blind eye cause someday it will come back and Then on that day will one be able to look in there eyes and say Yes I did enough or ALL to pick the pieces...

because if the answer is NO then it will kill you inside slowly, now you may say yeah i will survive or it doesnot matter , I am more happier But then the day you are sitting alone Wondering what could have been... did we try enough.. When you are sitting in a courtyard, rain drops falling.. watching someone happy.. the thought comes to you Wish someone was here .. THAT TIME what will happen...

Life is too short to let things go... OR AM I LIVING IN A DREAM LAND :)

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13 Response to "Love for Love wanted"

  1. smitzy Says:

    When a dream starts, everything is rosy.. everything is beautiful.. everything feels optimistic.. then cracks appear and the picture fades.. If things were done when the cracks first started appearing, then probably nothing would have been broken and no glue wud b needed to fix things.

    Maybe the person is so beyond repair now that its upto a NEXT person to come n put him/her together.

    just my thoughts, you needn't necesarily agree with them :)

  2. smitzy Says:

    oh btw.. first comment FINALLY :)

  3. sangeeta Says:

    Geeeeeez!! The title is mis(s)leading. I was about to take you up on ur offer...hehehe

  4. Bikram Says:

    @smitzy:- thanks , yeah you did make it first this time. There is always time.. If only one understands it.. If only... Moreover its breaking-joining which makes what they say LIFe if it was so straightforward.. All would be HAPPY.. But TRY..


    @Sangeeta:- :) hmmm I think the first impression is always the RIGHT impression :) he he he Now hope it is not mis(s)leading he he he he :), you asked me to wake up from slumber.. I am not the one looking sleepy here ha ha ha ha

  5. Neha Says:

    Bikram, you sound so low..see buddy, tell you one thing very honestly; I know it is easy said than done; but I even know that it is easy to move on too..provided you want to move on..Experience speaks buddy :D

    always follow the dog's rule - If you can't have it; then p!$$ on it and move on..

    see my word verification is also LIKED..first time your blog is liking me :P

    PS: my one liner comments also I write only when I mean them..so don't look at the words/length :P :D

  6. sm Says:

    misleading title
    first i thought you are writing about love story, someone is in search of love
    but interesting article
    its very difficult to know when first crack happend

  7. Harman Says:

    Bikram ..u sound upset..but listen its hard to practice though but jus ignore the person absolutely this is the biggest punishment to the other person..and try to move ...thats life ,somebody will be there ..a better ,more compassionate and kind person..watch out..time will definitely heal this...

  8. Chandrika Shubham Says:

    Its life!

  9. Sandhya Says:

    'Just push your hand out or hold the hand that is out...' I liked this line. Too philosophical, Bikram. We have started thinking in these lines now and try to follow, at our age. Even now keeping aside our ego and holding our hands out is difficult, but we have to try. Time is short for us.

  10. The Holy Lama Says:

    Yeah some relations just need that fevicol ka majboot jod. Keep pidlite happy:)

  11. BK Chowla, Says:

    Just move.It works.

  12. Insignia Says:

    Biks,

    Its easier said than done. But it only hurts you further trying to patch things only from your side. If the other person is not willing to, its definitely not worth. Just IGNORE....thats the best thing or rather worse thing that can happen with that person..

    Move on boy!! there are much better and beautiful things in life :-)

  13. Anonymous Says:

    There is Nothing called LOVE.. the earlier you realise it , the better you will Feel.

    you are better off now, with something new to look forward to and the person you are wanting is the looser, her loss..

    and Like the comment above says MOVE ON BOY..