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Life-- WHAT IF -- Decisions

Tuesday, April 20, 2010 Posted by Bikram

LIFE IS WHAT WE MAKE OF IT ... Take my example its in front of you ALL OF IT.. Life is about CHOICES.. right and wrong are just perceptions of what it turns out to be.. So nothing is right or wrong.. its the result which decides that ...

I have always wondered what it would be, Or how it would be if I had chosen the other answer, But that is life one will never know how it will be if we choose the other side, all we can think is WHAT IF...

We prey to god hoping for best, But then if we think hard all these decisions are already decided for us , someone up there has already written the script, all we can hope is that when he was writing the script he was in a good mood, But then god loves everyone the same, so it should be good for us.

The question is what are these choices , what is wrong or right.. Sometimes in life It's Difficult to Decide what's Wrong... A Lie that draws a smile on our face Or the Truth that brings tears in our eyes... Reality is always the same. Cold, correct and static.

So if we go by the above then no decision is WRONG decision, it is wrong if it goes wrong only then and right otherwise. Every decision is correct decision. While we are all aware that life is full of tough decisions that need to be made, we may not realize that hasty decisions may not always be the right one.

I had posted a article a few weeks ago on Decision Making , Now I understand more, a few things about, why life treats me the way it does. Perhaps I've been the child on the disused track, suffering at the hands of so-called "Well- intentioned", illogical people ramming me with trains because of callous people like the kids on the used track.

We cannot change our fate, whatever has to happen will happen ,it is bound to happen, we can do our best to make sure minimum loss is made. And take responsibilities on the decisions we take, right or wrong .. Cause every decision we make has some sort of effect on us , on the people around us , on the people around those people around us. Its like the domino effect every decision has some sort of effect.

Sometimes we take a decision which we may realise later on in life that it was wrong, we cant go back on it but it is tough or its a man thing to accept it and the person who accepts that they made a Wrong decision is a much bigger man/woman.

I am not sure what I am trying to say in this note but all I wanted to say is that all who read this , think about your decisions , whatever you have decided THINK AGAIN.. Not asking you to not take any but hey if you think you have made a wrong one then accept it, no harm in that, it wont make one a smaller person.

anyway enough of my ramblingsssssssssssssssssssss....

(A few of the statements have been taken from others but they were just the right words for me, so I am sorry to have done that.I could not have found better words to put them in)

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18 Response to "Life-- WHAT IF -- Decisions"

  1. DiDo Says:

    i always go thru this "WHat if" situations...!!!

    but like u said "life is what u make of it" how true...!!! Nice post... Got me thinking :)

  2. The Holy Lama Says:

    Om Happeno Happen :D

  3. Insignia Says:

    Heavy heavy!! What if...the more the variables, the more tougher..Dont think much :-) Choose a path and tread it

  4. sangeeta Says:

    i hate making choices or taking decisions :(

  5. Neha Says:

    chill maar re..the more you think; the more complicated life becomes..

  6. Madhu Says:

    My brain works over time on ll such stuffs..wht if,why so,then what!! Life goes on with no answers too..:)

  7. smitzy Says:

    Everyone faces this in their life once. Things once done can't be undone, but they can be brooded upon. This is a nice article especially for people like me : confused, rash and not thinking things through :)

  8. HaRy!! Says:

    well it depends on each individual rite... like me... i feel carpi diem after any decision... sometimes that work and other times... it gets the better outta me !

  9. Smita Says:

    oye hoye... 78!! new rank :) badhaiyan sir ji! :P

  10. kavita Says:

    You sound very hurt ...whatever it is ,i hope and pray that it passes of soon.No matter how hard we try all our decisions to be right all the time,mistakes just happen.All that i can say is never loose trust and faith in God and yourself...move on.Best wishes,my dear friend !!

  11. Bikram Says:

    @Dido:- YEah it is wht we make of it.. So what did you think then ... Thansk for visiting my blog.

    @The holy Lama:- he he he I Like this .. OM HAPPENO HAPPEN... hone do ha ha ha NICE ONE ..

  12. Bikram Says:

    @Insignia:- Hmmm heavy heavy hai then put it down.. take some rest.. and then pick it up again :)..

    Yeah thats what it is the Choice.. Which PATH.. right left, straight, detour.. what...

  13. Bikram Says:

    @Sangeeta:- I know we all hate making decision but this is one thing that we all have to do.. no matter what .. and whatever we choose will be Right or Wrong :)

  14. Bikram Says:

    @Neha:- chilling .. chilling.. zayada karoonga then it will be icing icing he he he

    YEah I know the more we think.. Life should be simple uncomplicated :)

  15. Bikram Says:

    @Madhu:- he he ehe .. I like that the over time of the BRAIN.. make sure you keep it cool and well Oiled...

    YEah life goes on and will go on irrespective of what decisions we take .. thats the beauty of it.. By the way the long due post is on way will put it tomorrow pakka :)

  16. Bikram Says:

    @Smitzy:- Well all the more reason to sit-relax- think.. and think again before making a decision.. Lifes experiences should teach a few thigns now :)

    and thanks for 78 new rank... :)

  17. Bikram Says:

    @Hary:- ha haah YEah same her bro.. same here.. seems whatever decision we take it will fall wrong..

  18. Bikram Says:

    @Kavita:- No no its not that , just a normal article. BUt yeah do need your prayers tooo.. got a lot of decisions to make in the very near future..

    YEs Not loosing any hope .. and thank you for the wishes much needed he he he he :)